#intentionality

What Will Make You Successful


Everything going on right now can be scary and overwhelming but let me give me you some encouragement. 


You don’t have to drown in all of this mess the world throws at you.


When it comes to being successful or most liked, there is so much pressure to meet all these standards and fit into a cookie cutter mold, and you have the choice on whether you’ll let that define your ultimate potential and worth.


What will get you to the top isn't all you’ve done or how many followers you have, but how you use what you have & what you care about.


If you care about what everyone else has to say, get stuck time after time.


You won’t meet up to all those expectations because you aren't supposed to. You are called to fulfill your unique purpose with a loving, servant's heart.


Something that I love to live by is “I’m playing for an audience of one: God”.


There is one thing that will get you to the best of everything and that to me, is God or a higher purpose that you believe in.


You are called to show up every day not because it's the 'right' thing to do, but because your creator has called you to such greatness. 


You are capable of so much. “You were made for greatness and a purpose”.


When you show up with that in mind, amazing things happen. You begin to be used to your full potential & nothing can stop you from fulfilling that out when you are playing for an audience of the One who is the most important puzzle piece in this life journey. 


When you focus on walking in your God given purpose and having Him in mind with all you put out into the world, you will soar where nothing can touch you. 


It’s really that simple. 


When I used to feel like I was drowning every time I had to get up and go another day in the hell hole I called school, I would tell myself, “go through this day like you’re working for God.” That gave me such an umph in my day because it was no longer about me or about what other people had to say. It was about using my abilities and about being grateful for what He has given me.


When you focus on working for your higher potential, many worries that used to be so big become so little and it is SO refreshing.


As we walk this rocky road together right now, remember you are not alone in your struggles and you have been called for more. 


Lean into that calling. Don’t hold back.


This is where you will find success and fulfillment time after time, no matter how many times you fall.


People who are going through what you have already overcome, NEED YOU.


The world needs you to lean into where you are being called. 


Leading your people doesn’t have to be overwhelming when you have faith in what He can do through you. The only One you have to answer to at the end of the day is God.


If you desire to get more in tune with your purpose and calling, message me here. The time is now. Your people need you now more than ever.

How To ACTUALLY CRUSH Your Goals This Year

Goals, goals, goals. They can be such a pain, can’t they?


This one tip for goal setting will literally change everything for you. It’s insanely simple. 


I used to always feel SO SO defeated all the time no matter how hard I was working towards something. I had so many goals always lined up and never felt satisfied or lit up like I wanted to be and I was getting dag-on tired. 


Ya know why? I wasn’t able to consistently check off important goals because I was naive on how to properly do so. I did that for so long that I eventually got extremely burnt out and had to stop all together. I had hit a wall and had nothing else to give at that time. That is not a good feeling. It’s very MEH.


Lately, I have felt almost a full 360 take place when it comes to my whole motivation for every single thing, big and small. I have never felt better and it’s all because of this simple change, that literally anyone can make right this second.


First, get a piece of paper. Write down a task you need or want to do that’s small enough for you to do right now. Maybe it’s to put the laundry away or write that letter to a friend. Now go do it, and come back and draw a line through the task. How good did it feel to draw that line? AMAZING, right?!


Exactly!! Your body immediately feels relief, excitement and overall accomplishment from that simple action and being able to cross it off. You get that dopamine hit that will push you forward to be able to go crush your next goal with the besttt energy.


Imagine how good it would feel to cross off a huge goal that you’ve had for the longest time??


All you need to do is to make sure you’re setting them up well or you’ll be wasting your time big time.


They HAVE to have these certain attributes: be specific, measurable, accountable, realistic and time-based.


If they aren’t these 5 things then it will just be another goal that will drive you nuts and leave you feeling discouraged. 


You want to go to Hawaii by June? What’s a step that’s going to get you there?...Let’s say, your first goal to help you get there is to sell $200 from selling homemade scarfs this month. That’s your goal. You have a specific amount, a time limit, it’s realistic enough if you know how to properly sell them etc, measurable (something to work for that you can actually cross off), and accountable in the sense that you can hold yourself to that standard without crazy stress because it should be realistic enough to work towards without getting majorly held back.


Make sure your goals aren’t too overwhelming. You don’t need to have the biggest goals. You can have the biggest dreams but let’s make sure those goals that will get you there are realistic and legit. There’s no need to make yourself feel less than. 


You CAN and WILL accomplish anything you want with this set up. One goal and action step at a time.


If you need any help with narrowing down your goals and practicing this, message me here and I can walk you through achieving those dreams like the rockstar you are. 

How To Get Some Pep In Your Step

Taking the first step is the hardest. I think we all know that. Whether it be the first step in a new school or the first step towards change. It is a challenging thing to do but the most crucial piece in getting where we desire to be. Sometimes we have to take multiple first steps in the same situation before consistent and noticeable, good change occurs. For me, I’ve had trouble staying consistent with implementing time to rest or what I like to call; quiet time. I push it off and put it on the back burner and not long after having it there, the pot runs out of water and burns, becoming unusable. Just like we are told that we can’t give running on empty, how do we expect to do more when necessary habits and steps are vital to be made. So first, let’s go ahead and make that first step. Even if it might be the 100th first step you’ve taken, take it again with a shift this time.

Don’t expect so much out of it. Treat it as if you’re just learning how to walk, taking the little wobbly steps full of excitement. That baby learning how to walk doesn’t fret about all the steps he/she has to take for the rest of their life. They put so much energy into that first step and use that momentum to take their second and their third, and so on. I know that with me, I expect SO FREAKIN MUCH out of anything I put on myself to do. I expect an unnecessary amount out of effort, result, etc out of myself. When really, I should be so proud of every step that I’ve made and am making. Every little thing has brought me to even make this decision to start or restart something and that is a beautiful thing! To be where I am is a beautiful thing to celebrate even if it might not be the prettiest place. All that pressure you’re putting on yourself to make whatever it may be, perfect, is wasting your time. Wasting your precious time, gosh darnit. This time around set out with the intention to make this one different. To do that, you need to be willing to celebrate every ounce, every inch, every feeling. All of it. Celebrate them because that build up of high energy will get your feet moving so fast (your fitbit won’t even be able to keep up), and will allow you to produce so much more goodness. Not only so much goodness in that goal or habit you are setting out to accomplish, but that high energy will overflow into everything else you are doing and everything that’s to come. That ripple effect will be bonkers, lemme tell ya! 

That one thing that has been eating at you to set out to do—Send it some love, put on your good walking shoes and sit down. You heard me, sit down. You have your love, your intention on what to do, and the shoes to get there safely but you’re missing something. Sit down and dig deep. How will you make this first step impactful like no other? No matter how small the step may be, how will you make it worthwhile? You will celebrate before you even have started. Celebrate that you are reading this. Seriously, say “I am so proud of you for taking the time and effort in reading this! You freakin rock and are doing amazing things”. It felt good to say those things out loud, didn’t it? Now can you imagine how it’ll feel when you are doing the dirty work and taking the challenging steps, and get recognized for that? So recognize yourself. Do NOT wait for anyone else to celebrate you because if you do, anyone that comes around will probably be lame at celebrations anyways lol. This step towards wherever you are going is already so beautiful. Love it whole-heartedly and fill it with excitement just like that baby taking their first step. Go into it filled with energy and you’ll be coming out on the other side of the journey, dancing.

What have you been putting off? I’d love to hear from you and celebrate as you take your next step ❤︎

If this resonated with you, then you’ll find so much value in my guide on living intentionally. Check it out here!

Meet Shayla Blue

 
I used to be that person who felt so crippled on what I was supposed to do with my ENTIRE life. The voices of the world were so loud in my ear and I felt so un-attracted to what they all had to say.

I was overwhelmed by every unknown the future had ahead and it didn't feel like a worthwhile existence to go down the mainstream route. I couldn't bear the thought of staying in a 9-5 job for the rest of my life, settling for little to no money until I get to retire and die. 

So I didn't. 

I found my own way. Through MANY valleys and falls, I finally found my way. 

It took a whole heck of a lot of work to find it, but I did it and I get to live in balance now that I took those chances and risks. 

It is so refreshing to be able to be where I stand, knowing all that I went through to get here to this dream life I desperately longed for.

I'm here to make sure you don't get left behind where I used to be.

 I am here to provide you the knowledge and resources I desperately longed for, so you don't have to go through the long and exhausting journey of finding your path.

Let's not waste anymore time and get you where you dream to be too. It is beyond possible. 

 First, hop in my group filled with empowering people where you can start to soak up the knowledge and information we share to get you started. Pursuing a live worth living, together. LET'S GET IT.

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